"if feminism is a hate movement towards men, why is my boyfriend a feminist?"
Your boyfriend is a feminist because - like most men - he likes women and actually can’t help but like women, as he evolved to put their safety and security before his own. Your boyfriend is a feminist because that natural care and concern was exploited by a political ideology that convinced him with a 40-year torrent of feminist propaganda that women in the west are living in a perpetual state of emergency and terror caused by men just like himself. He believes supporting their incessant scapegoating and hate-mongering makes him a ‘good man’. He’s wrong.
"if rape culture doesn’t exist, why was one girl I know sexually assaulted three times in a decade and told it was because of the way she dressed?"
This is a non-argument, based only on your own personal experiences that I have no way of verifying and even if I did, one single individual’s story can not be offered up as some sort of convincing proof on a matter concerning 3.5 billion other individuals.
It’s like me saying “if we don’t live in a burglary culture, how come one friend of mine (who may or may not actually exist) was burgled four times last year (even though no-one else I know was)? AND the police had the nerve to tell him he could have lessened the chances of that happening if he had not just left his door wide open each time he left the house! Victim blaming!!!”
"why did a fraternity boy think he was entitled to sleep with girls so he threw a fit and killed seven people in california?"
If we really lived in a ‘rape culture’, wouldn’t Elliot Rodger simply have raped all those tall blonde goddesses he longed for, rather than killing 4 men, 2 women, and then himself? After all, in a ‘rape culture’, no-one would have minded, would they? No one would have stopped him, or offered any kind of punishment for that whatsoever. Would they? I mean, if we really lived in a rape culture? Something to think on.
"why am I not allowed to wear a top showing my midriff at school because "it distracts boys"?"
Because a) it does distract boys, (and again, you can blame evolution and biology for that) and b) there are dress codes in pretty much all schools that are imposed on both boys and girls. It’s a way of preparing children for the world of work and adult society later on. Are the boys at your school allowed to sit in class in cut-off tops that only cover their nipples and let their bellies hang out? Well then.
"why am I afraid to walk the streets in the middle of the day?"
Because, like your boyfriend, you’ve had your poor young mind utterly mangled by 40 years of propaganda that has brainwashed you into believing rapists and murderers lurk behind every streetcorner. Again, this is a non-argument, based on nothing more than your own personal beliefs projected onto the world at large. It makes no more sense than me saying “if spiders aren’t taking over the world and planning to enslave us all then why am I afraid of spiders?!!! Answer me that, huh? Why am I afraid???!!!!!!?”
the older I get, the more I understand squidwards anger
You either die Spongebob, or live long enough to see yourself become Squidward.
very strange how u can talk to someone everyday and still miss them
Can u believe there are plants that are illegal
Can you believe there is love that is illegal